Are you ready for an unf*ckwithable mindset?

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Are you over the same old personal development fluff that sounds nice but doesn’t actually change anything? Welcome to The Realism Project

What we cover:

  • Connection and Disconnection: Tired of feeling out of sync with the people around you? Learn how to build connections that last and handle those disconnects without drama.

  • Intimacy and Vulnerability: Get comfortable with the real you so you can have deeper connections with the people who matter most—no walls, no pretending.

  • Communication: Say what you mean, mean what you say. This module teaches you how to speak honestly and effectively so you’re actually heard.

  • Social Media Consumption: Learn to manage your online life so it doesn’t manage you. More control, less comparison.

  • Failure: Embrace failure without letting it define you. We’ll show you how to bounce back stronger every time life knocks you down.

  • Grief and Responsibility: Life can be hard, but you don’t have to carry the weight alone. This module helps you understand your emotions and process your experiences in a healthy, real way.

The Realism Project is for the everyday girl who’s tired of playing small, tired of surface-level advice, and ready to do the real work for real results. Let’s cut through the noise and get down to what truly makes a difference. Ready to start?

  • Honest Conversations: We dive deep into the tough topics—grief, intimacy, friendships, ego—without sugarcoating anything.

    Accountability: This isn't about passive learning. You'll be pushed to take real action, confront uncomfortable truths, and implement what you learn.

    Direct Feedback: Expect straight talk. We cut through the fluff to give you the hard truths you need to hear to make real changes.

    Real Results: By the end of the course, you'll see tangible improvements in your self-awareness, relationships, emotional intelligence, and overall resilience.

    Supportive Community: Join a group of like-minded individuals who are also committed to ditching the fake and embracing the real.

    Practical Tools: Get actionable strategies and exercises to integrate into your daily life, ensuring that your personal development is not just theoretical but practical and impactful.

  • Feel Stuck: You've read all the self-help books, attended seminars, and followed all the gurus, but nothing seems to stick. Your life still doesn't reflect the growth you’re aiming for.

    Struggle with Authenticity: You present yourself as conscious and evolved, but deep down, you know you’re not living your truth. You might be kind to strangers but snap at your mom or partner.

    Avoid Hard Conversations: You shy away from discussing grief, intimacy, and vulnerability because they're uncomfortable, preferring to stay in your comfort zone.

    Lack Accountability: You start strong but somewhere that momentum dies. You need a push to stay committed and disciplined.

    Desire True Self-Respect: You're ready to stop faking it and want genuine self-respect and self-love that come from confronting and overcoming real challenges.

    Want Real Relationships: You’re done with surface-level friendships and desire deeper, more meaningful connections that can withstand honest, tough conversations.

  • Radical Self-Honesty: The ability to confront and accept your deepest truths without excuses or avoidance, leading to profound personal insights and growth.

    Practical Tools for Accountability: Concrete strategies to hold yourself accountable, ensuring you follow through on your commitments and achieve real results.

    Emotional Resilience: Techniques to navigate and process grief, intimacy issues, and other challenging emotions, allowing you to handle life's ups and downs with grace and strength.

    Authentic Relationships: Skills to build and maintain deeper, more genuine connections with others by fostering open, honest communication.

    Self-Discipline Mastery: A disciplined mindset to tackle your goals with unwavering focus and consistency, transforming your habits and daily routines.

    Clarity and Purpose: A clear understanding of your core values and life purpose, guiding your actions and decisions towards a fulfilling, meaningful life.

    Improved Self-Respect: Self-respect that comes from living authentically, honoring your boundaries, and consistently choosing integrity over comfort.

  • I’m Dijana, but you can call me Dij. Coaching women is my heart and soul. For the past 7 years, I've been dedicated to helping women find self-respect and discipline.

    I’m not about the fluff. My journey with top-tier mentors has armed me with the grit and expertise to guide you through the raw, real, and sometimes uncomfortable truths of personal development.

    I’m here to help you get real results and live authentically.

The biggest theme I see in coaching industry is everyone "knows" all the things yet lack application.

The grit project closes that gap. From a talker. To a do'er. From a knower. To someone who IS that.

Knowing information is cute. Being an embodiment is the real flex and can confirm not many people have this flex.

An honest journey designed to push you beyond your comfort zones. It’s about shedding the “when’s” and embracing raw, unfiltered honesty to access true grit and self-trust. This course dismantles your excuses and challenges you to confront your deepest fears and limitations.

  • Raw Honesty: Dive into conversations that cut through the fluff, confronting the hard truths about personal excuses and limitations.

    Daily Systems: Learn how grit is ACTUALLY built through consistent, small actions rather than grand gestures, you’ll get all my secrets.

    Intense Focus: Develop vigilance, perseverance, and passion to drive long-term success by learning the science and psychology behind it all.

    Personal Growth: Break free from societal conformity, embrace courage, and build an unshakeable self-trust.



    Module Breakdown:

    Call One: Introduction, boundaries, and setting the tone for honesty.

    Call Two: Dissecting excuses and commitment to daily actions.

    Call Three: Vigilance and attention to detail.

    Call Four: Perseverance through challenges.

    Call Five: Unleashing passion and long-term vision.

    Call Six: Tackling shame and temptation.

    Call Seven: Deep dive into self-discipline and delayed gratification.

    Call Eight: Reflecting on growth and setting up supportive environments.

  • LAZY LINDA: You skip reps, and parts of the workout, admin life tasks, and say you will do it tomorrow, your car is NEVER tidy


    SELF DOUBT SUSAN: You don't identify as disciplined, or consistent - your biggest hinderance is your inconsistency


    EGO EMILY: You are disciplined, but refuse to be a student or listen to other perspectives. Your stuck. But refuse to change your application mechod.


    FUN FRANCIS: You overly rely on excitement to the point where it's a hinderance. If it doesn't feel good or excite you. You won't go near it.


    BUSY BETTY: Are always busy and just never have the time for yourself- finding or creating the time is your kryptonite


    JUSTIFY JOANIE: always has a reason as to why not to work out, do things that require a challenge "Listening to my body" "it is just how I feel" "next week* "when x happens I'll do y"


    CONFUSED CANDICE: You have previously invested in self development and mindset work, but seem to fall off the bandwagon with everytime OR struggle to implement.

  • Unshakable Self-Trust: Master the art of self-discipline and learn to rely on your own commitment 4 eva.

    Laser Focus: Cultivate vigilance to pay attention to the smallest details and avoid distractions so you can be proud of yourself DAILY.

    Resilient Perseverance: Build the endurance to push through challenges and delays without losing momentum. We are all about embodiment over knowledge here.

    Real Accountability: Learn to hold yourself accountable and eliminate excuses that hinder progress.

    Honest Self-Reflection: Gain the ability to confront your true self and make authentic changes. Move from a victim mentality to a victor mindset, ready to tackle any obstacle.

    Sustainable Habits: Implement small, consistent actions that lead to big, lasting changes.

  • I'm Dijana, known as Dij, and my mission is to help women like you discover and cultivate self-respect.

    My journey began at 18, coaching women in the gym, guided by my first mentor, an Iron Man.

    I then trained under a professional bodybuilder and, for the past four years, a professional boxer has been my mentor.

    With seven years of coaching experience, my passion lies in instilling discipline, empowering women to embrace their strength, and transforming their lives through unwavering commitment and resilience.